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We had a good night last night. Emma and I went for a few drinks before the meal and she laid down some pre-nup rules for me. Most of them concerned infidelity. For instance, if I ever have sex with another woman, she will not only divorce me but also screw me for every penny I am worth. Fair enough, I said. There is no chance of that ever happening anyway.
I thought it was a good opportunity to reinforce my stance on Emma's sexual freedom, so after promising to always remain faithful and accept her wrath should I stray, I reminded her that she is free to have sex with whoever she likes.
Previously this subject has made Emma feel a bit uncomfortable, as she has suspected ulterior motives, but now she seems to be getting the picture. This time, she was interested in the technicalities. She asked whether she could tell her friends. When I asked her why she would want to, she said that, if she went with someone else whilst out with her friends, she would want to tell her friend that what she was doing was 'allowed' in our relationship. Of course, I said, by all means tell your friends.
That seemed like quite a development to me; she has actually been thinking about it.
This morning I asked to be allowed to pleasure my Princess, and was given permission. I gave her an orgasm whilst kissing her breasts. I nearly came with absolutely no physical contact. Then we had some post-orgasm intimacy, during which I stroked her hair and told her she is the most beautiful woman in the world and I am very lucky to be marrying her. I told her I love her about half a dozen times. She just smiles now, when I say it. She never tells me back. She lays there like a proper Princess, just accepting all my loving adoration. I kissed the soles of her feet countless times.
When I got out of bed to make her breakfast, Emma noticed a wet patch where I must have dribbled some pre-cum. She asked me about it and I explained what it was. Thinking about it, a better response would have been an apology, and an assurance that I hadn't actually had an orgasm. I need to react better to these little opportunities to show that I know my place.
No major developments on the Nathan front last night. He was out but he and Emma didn't talk much as there were so many other friends there who we hadn't seen for a while.
Anyway, things are going in the right direction at the moment and I am feeling very positive.
I thought it was a good opportunity to reinforce my stance on Emma's sexual freedom, so after promising to always remain faithful and accept her wrath should I stray, I reminded her that she is free to have sex with whoever she likes.
Previously this subject has made Emma feel a bit uncomfortable, as she has suspected ulterior motives, but now she seems to be getting the picture. This time, she was interested in the technicalities. She asked whether she could tell her friends. When I asked her why she would want to, she said that, if she went with someone else whilst out with her friends, she would want to tell her friend that what she was doing was 'allowed' in our relationship. Of course, I said, by all means tell your friends.
That seemed like quite a development to me; she has actually been thinking about it.
This morning I asked to be allowed to pleasure my Princess, and was given permission. I gave her an orgasm whilst kissing her breasts. I nearly came with absolutely no physical contact. Then we had some post-orgasm intimacy, during which I stroked her hair and told her she is the most beautiful woman in the world and I am very lucky to be marrying her. I told her I love her about half a dozen times. She just smiles now, when I say it. She never tells me back. She lays there like a proper Princess, just accepting all my loving adoration. I kissed the soles of her feet countless times.
When I got out of bed to make her breakfast, Emma noticed a wet patch where I must have dribbled some pre-cum. She asked me about it and I explained what it was. Thinking about it, a better response would have been an apology, and an assurance that I hadn't actually had an orgasm. I need to react better to these little opportunities to show that I know my place.
No major developments on the Nathan front last night. He was out but he and Emma didn't talk much as there were so many other friends there who we hadn't seen for a while.
Anyway, things are going in the right direction at the moment and I am feeling very positive.
So, does Emma have you on some sort of orgasm schedule? Or are you just basically expected to stay chaste for her?
ReplyDeleteI think it's a good sign that she was making those comments about telling her friends. You should come up with a "gag" prenup agreement that has a heading title "Sex" and under your name you could put what she stated like - no sexual relations with any person other than Emma, as and when she permits. Then you could slip something additional in there like - in addition masturbation and orgasm are permitted only with the express permission of Emma - and see how she reacts. Then under her name you simply write "no restrictions." You can tell her she then has written authorization for sleeping with others that she can show her friends. How deliciously humiliating that would be. Tell her you've only put in the section on sex and she can add sections like "finances" as in what yours is hers and what's hers is also hers. I know I'm posting under Anon so I'll sign my name to differentiate from other Anon posters. Signed John
ReplyDeleteLH, there is no kind of schedule. I am completely at the mercy of her whims. Maybe it will be another two months, maybe I will never have another orgasm again. I can't decide whether I should maybe ask if I could be permitted a ruined orgasm some time soon if I am obedient and hard-working enough. I have no right to have an orgasm, so is it presumtuous to even bring up the subject? On the other hand, asking for an orgasm reinforces her position as my boss and superior.
ReplyDeleteI think I might very tactfully, and in a non-pushy manner, respectfully request that she considers the possibility of granting me some kind of ejaculation at the end of February providing I meet her standards. I could suggest she comes up with some criteria that I must meet in order for my request to be considered.
John, that's a very good idea, and one which I will certainly be implementing very soon, whilst the weekend's conversation is still fresh.
ReplyDeleteI think I will sit down with Emma and a laptop and we can compile a pre-nup agreement covering all kinds of subjects such as Finance, Sex, Social, Housework, Appearance, General Behaviour...
Obviously all the restrictions will be on me and she will have all the benefits and absolute freedom in every section. The Sex heading will not stick out as a discrepancy if she can see that there are massive inequalities in every area; her sexual freedom will seem perfectly natural in the wider context of the relationship.
Incidentally, I have just printed off a form in work for my bank details to be changed so that my salary gets paid directly into Emma's account. Seems like quite a big statement to make, but also perfectly natural and sensible since Emma is so much better with money than I am.
Thanks John, for your very helpful input. I will let you know the wording of our agreement and Emma's reaction to it soon. OB.
I'm all for going for broke but my immediate reaction was that a full blown agreement with everything in there may be too much for her all at once. You know her best so I'm not saying you shouldn't proceed as you stated and I would love to see the agreement and hear about her reaction to it but you've made such remarkable progress that I wouldnt want you to rush things just as they're getting where you want them. Also, I was wondering if you had any other experiences as a submissive with women before Emma. Thanks, John
ReplyDeleteYou may have a point. We are making progress but I still have to be wary of freaking her out and turning her off the whole FLR thing. I have to keep it as un-weird seeming as possible.
DeleteMind you, if I just approach her with the idea and we go though it together then I should be able to gauge her reaction as we go along. Better to do it that way than just hit her with a massive list! Thanks again for the input John! OB